Monday, August 31, 2009

Age, Money and Energy never comes together

Teen age:
Have Time + Energy but No Money

Working Age:
Have Money + Energy but No Time

Old age:
Have Time + Money but no Energy
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[Positive thoughts‏ ]

May every day of your life bring you fresh hopes for tomorrow - because hope gives all of us our reason for trying.

May each new day bring a feeling of excitement, joy, and a wonderful sense of expectation. Expect the best, and you will get it.

May you find peace in simple things, because those are the ones that will always be there.

May you remember the good times and forget the sorrow and pain, for the good times will remind you of how special your life has been.

May you experience all the good things in life - the happiness of realizing your dreams, the joy of feeling worthwhile, and the satisfaction of knowing you have succeeded.

May you find warmth in others, expressions of love and kindness, smiles that encourage you and friends
who are loyal and honest.

May you realize the importance of patience and accept others for what they are. With understanding
and love, you will find the good in every heart.

May you have faith in others and the ability to be vulnerable. Open your heart and really share the miracle of love and intimacy.

Above all, may you always have positive thoughts.

Regina Hill

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

[ How to over come the fears of change ]

Normally people are afraid to accept change whether it
is good or bad. Fears of change to be defeated to succeed
in life. The life comprise of ups and downs. No body can
be in a permanent ascending trend, because that is not
possible and no body can avoid that.

However the most important thing is not how to avoid
changes, fears and bad experiences but how to learn from
them. It is crucial not to let problems overwhelm you,
but to know how to use them in your favor for your
success.

There is no doubt that any problem will affect us, which is
normal because we have feelings. But every problem would
make us stronger. That is the reason the specialist in this
subject has always recommended to analyze and meditate
on the worst situation you had to deal with in the course of
your life. Try to learn from your mistakes so that they will
prepare you for the changes or less pleasant situations to come.

There are beliefs in the olden days that every single
situation of our lives take place with a pre-determined
reason. And also people thoughts that life prepare us
for certain events to come, so that if we focus more
attention on our previous experiences, we will understand
many things from the present.

It is also true that the unexpected can happen anytime.
However please keep in mind that a change is not always
for the worst.Since you are afraid to take the risk some
time you may miss a chance.

Please keep in mind something has to happen in order
to free you from monotony. So do not get surprised
if a certain moment in time, instead of being afraid of
change, you like it with all your heart.

If you are not in a position to understand what a certain
change in your life, really means, here is a list of tips
that might help you to get organized.

1.Try to think the positive impact only that will result
after the change.See how important they are and
meditate upon how to multiply by adding some other
good aspects. In this line you may need some assistance.
2. In one situation if you realize that other person can
handle the change, you can be sure you will be able to
handle it as well.
3.Imagine the worst situation that can be the result after
the change,try to find many solutions to it. Meditate
on how much you can loose if worst happened. At the
same time look how important those things to you.

If you find more than one reasonable solution, you
are safe. The change can't be stronger than you are.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

[Success Formula]

There is no hard and fast rule or tem commandments

when it comes to becoming successful in life. There

are certain things and rules you can follow to make

your dreams come true. And here some of the

most important formula have been designed for

you.

The principle is that success is not come by overnight.

It has got nothing to do with nightly prayers. And it

has nothing to do with watching others become

Successful. It has got to do with consistent work and

effort everyday and every moments. Look at the

farmers they tend to their crops every single day

without fail. When the time comes they reap the

benefits from their hard work and effort. Success

is a lot like that. Continuous and consistent effort

make a world of difference.

There no short cuts in your journey to success.

The harder you try, the shorter your journey.

Shortcuts always lead to disappointments . In

some cases the luck may have done something

to become success, but shortcut have nothing

to do with success.

Design a plan, keep to it and track your efforts.

Keep track of plan and the success rate of your

efforts will help you to understand what you

are doing right and what you are doing wrong.

And during your journey to success you can fine tune

your plan and map out the route you want to

travel. The better you adapt and change your

plan according to circumstance and need, the

faster you will get to where you want to go.

In our journey to success we have to deal

with stress whether we like it or not. If you

want to be successful you will have to learn

how to deal with your stress better.There

are two layers to stress. One you have to

learn how to deal with the daily stress level

in your life. The second, you have to learn

how to channel your stress energy somewhere

else and turn them around to work for you.

Yes, your stress can be your ally not your

enemy. Learn how to turn your stress to

become your motivating factor. Every time

you are stressed, push forward and channel

it towards achieving something beneficial

towards your dreams. And very importantly

never waver from your goal because you are

stressed.

First and foremost start eliminating negative

influence in your life. Once the negatives are out

of the way it will be easier for you to become

positive. Surround yourself with things that will

Benefit you. And hang out with positive, successful

people. And embrace the positive and let them

overwhelm and influence you.

Monday, August 10, 2009

[How To Find Out What You Want From Life ]

Whether you are old or young,you must arrived
to a point in life to decides what you should do to
improve your life.You should not depend on some
one advise because if their advice goes wrong you
would blame them for your failure. That is the reason
experts always advise when you are at a cross road to
come to your own decision.

Obviously, you will have a question how you can
know which one is the best solution.

The answer for this question is never going to be
simple. How ever there is technique that can be of
great help and employed regularly will have great
results: it is called Meditation.This has been used for
centuries in certain rituals and by ancient civilizations.
For example in the Bible,we are invited to meditate to
discover and fight the evil in us and by knowledge to
gain control over our decisions and our lives.

How we can meditate, first you will have to go to a
calm place where there is no distractions. You must be
able to analyze your deepest feelings and thoughts.
Secondly you need to ask yourself a series of questions to
determine who you really is.

What do you like doing?
What made you most proud of yourself?
What is it that you always wanted to do and you never
found the time?
What role does money play in your life?
How much do you depend on others.

All these questions will help you to determine where you
stand and what is it that you want from life. After analyze
every question write the answers in a paper with red pen.
whatever you find pride worthy answers and with black
one the things that don't make you proud.

Post the list somewhere where you can see it several times.
You will notice that step by step the black list start turning
red.Don't forget to renew the list when most of it has turned
red! It is the best way to always be aware what your
expectations from life are! Good luck!